Supposedly when relationships are grinding to a halt it is good to take a step back and survey the tangled mess from a safe distance. Negative patterns, recurring triggers and defense mechanisms might become more discernible that way. Supposedly, this makes it easier to find solutions that help break patterns and establish early warning systems so painful gridlocks can be prevented. But what if one side thrives on negativity? What if they feel bereft of their regular doses of adrenalin once the old patterns are under revision and the ready flow of bale dwindles? There are enough people, who love strife and the platform for vitriolic diatribe it provides for their ego and let me tell you, they won’t thank you for your thoughtful recalibration....
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