Sunday, February 28, 2010

8 Point 8


Fourteen years ago, a paranoid me was living and working in Santiago de Chile while finishing my Master’s Thesis on Liberation Theology. Having memorized the dates when earthquakes devastated that region in the past, I was prepared to save my floppy disks containing my research out of the rubble of any toppled building or else have them be shipped back by a survivor. The thesis comprised of six diskettes including pictures, stats, and elaborate tables. One complete set accompanied me everywhere I went from the Atacama Desert to the Falls of IguazĂș and through the Andean Cordillera via boat and truck. Matt said nothing. Today he said: Oh shit!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

No Way!


Watching the Olympic pair figure skating competitions, Julian grew silent. As one ice princess after the other was lifted up into the air by her studly prince and tossed away in a nerve wrecking twirl, he scorned, "No, if I were married, I would not do that!"

Monday, February 15, 2010

Pura Vida!


When in Costa Rica, you will become closely acquainted with ‘pure life’ in the form of a wide-smile, bright-eye greeting that beams across pot holes and drain pipes clogged with crumpled milk cartons.

“ Pura Vida, Senora!” my gardener used to holler from underneath a smothering vine of flesh eating plants in the back of my garden at seven o’clock in the morning, and it was the last I heard from the armed guard closing the gate after our 4x4 steam ship had heaved itself into our drive way at night.

Over the four years that we lived in Costa Rica, “Pura Vida!” became to signify stubborn serenity in the face of abject nonsense. For Christ’s sake, enjoy this while it lasts. It’s just life after all. This is it!

Costa Ricans, at least the humble majority of them, grow up to be amazing problem- solvers. They take life one minute at a time and try not to worry about the big picture, a strategy which all those whose lot in life is less fortunate may be well advised to adopt.

Being able to switch into a “pura vida” mode from time to tome is something I have worked on over these past years and I am proud to report that I have been able to perfect it to a surprising level, given that all that I had going for myself was relentless perfectionism.

I guess, being a mom which entails problem-solving 24/7 everything from torn toe nails, broken bikes to problem pets, I have turned into sort of a subcontinent myself. Just making it through the day...minute by minute while making the best of it.

It’s an art.

Pura Vida!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Yep, it's working!

Broadband is back. After long conversations that turned into intimate relationships with first Satish and then Arun, I managed to change the broadband channel from channel 1 to channel 5 and reclaim my place in cyberspace for 18.99. My knees are still hurting from the time I spent underneath my desk cajoling the router into submission. I am not a young lover anymore. Twenty years ago, with our then brand new Gateway PC, I was abel to poke and prod the harddrive for hours at a time. Ah yes, where would multi-million conglomerates be without those gentle acts of love?